Growing Pains and Growing Ministry
Backed up traffic. Rising property values. Disappearing fields and farms. A changing landscape.
The growth boom in East Tennessee can be uncomfortable, frustrating, and even overwhelming for those of us who have already built our lives here. But with every traveler there is a story. Every new neighbor is someone God cares about.
A move can be exciting, but it can also be lonely. New families often leave behind friendships, support systems, and familiar routines. Churches are uniquely positioned to help them find not just a place to worship, but a place to belong.
Try looking at your church as if you’d never been there before.
1. Make the First Visit Easy
It’s safe to assume that most of your first-time attendees will visit your website or social media accounts before they decide to pull into your parking lot. Keep your online presence warm, current, informative, and easy to navigate.
2. First Impressions Matter
Currently, there are 22 suicides each and every day by active duty and former service members. Common stressors include PTSD, depression, relationship issues, legal issues and financial strain rather than combat exposure alone.
We have also learned in recent years that military spouse trauma is a critical issue. It can manifest as secondary traumatic stress, anxiety, depression and hypervigilance caused by chronic stress of deployments, frequent moves, solo parenting and supporting a spouse with PTSD. The children are also significantly impacted.
During Military Appreciation Month, remember to thank a veteran. Honor those special days during the month of May. And don’t forget to put out the flag.
3. The Family Connection
Currently, there are 22 suicides each and every day by active duty and former service members. Common stressors include PTSD, depression, relationship issues, legal issues and financial strain rather than combat exposure alone.
We have also learned in recent years that military spouse trauma is a critical issue. It can manifest as secondary traumatic stress, anxiety, depression and hypervigilance caused by chronic stress of deployments, frequent moves, solo parenting and supporting a spouse with PTSD. The children are also significantly impacted.
During Military Appreciation Month, remember to thank a veteran. Honor those special days during the month of May. And don’t forget to put out the flag.
4. Create Opportunities for Relationships
Newcomers need friends more than they need information. Small groups/classes and gatherings help people build meaningful connections as they grow spiritually. Invite new members to participate in service projects and community ministries – because one of the fastest ways to feel connected is to contribute.
5. Help Families Discover the Community
Church is only one part of a new life in a new city. Help visitors beyond Sunday. Church members can become unofficial community ambassadors, offering information about local family-friendly events, parks, and eateries. Introduce newcomers to local culture, foods, and traditions, too.
6. Follow Up Personally
A handwritten note, phone call, or personal email often means more than an automated response. People don’t remember forms and databases. They remember genuine kindness.
A Ministry Opportunity
East Tennessee’s growth presents challenges, but it also presents opportunities for ministry. Every new neighbor presents a chance to demonstrate Christ’s love.
Some people arrive with deep church backgrounds. Others may be returning to church after years away. Take time to listen before making assumptions.
Building community takes time. Consistent friendliness and genuine hospitality often matter more than elaborate programs.
The goal isn’t simply growing attendance numbers. It’s helping people find relationships, purpose, and a place where they can grow in their faith.
God is bringing the world to our doorstep. Let’s rise to the challenge and respond well.
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